My friends don't like my boyfriend, help!

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    songbird27
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    So my boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 months. Things have moved quite quickly and we are talking about moving in together. It is all very exciting but last week I found out that a few of my friends don’t like him and it has really upset me. I have a group of girlfriends that I have known since school and we are all really close, or so I thought. Last week one of them let it slip that a couple my other friends were badmouthing him and I couldn’t believe it. They have always been so positive about him to my face and now I feel totally disrespected and hurt. I don’t really want to make a scene and confront them but I can’t deal with being lied too? Has anyone here experienced something like this? What should I do? xx

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    WillowBee
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    Omg, same thing happened to me with my current boyfriend – I think my mates were just being protective after my ex but it really hurt my feelings.

    Have you tried talking to them about it but keep it casual? Maybe ask them why they don’t like him? Or most importantly why they’re lying to you about him and then saying this behind the scenes?

    Hugs

    Xxx

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